February News

Our "Dear Lezzies - Common Sense Lesbian Advice"
column is live at Australia's LOTL Magazine website now!

Last month's question:

Dear Lezzies,

I am 19 and have known I am bisexual for a few years now, but recently I have found that I think I like women more than men. I am becoming increasingly curious about starting a relationship with a woman (I have had a fling or two but never a proper relationship or proper sex.) I dress very stylish, but I am quite the girly-girl, and I find it very hard to meet other women because I don't look like your stereotypical 'lesbian.' They seem to get the impression that I am straight. I go to queer bars and clubs regularly with my friends (who are all lesbian too) and never have any luck even when I approach a girl! My friends say that I am good looking, and I don’t think I am that bad that no one would like me, but it's just that I am so girly that it confuses the other girls. Got any advice for a lost femme?

Amber

For our answer, go here:

www.lotl.com/default2.asp?Category=273&parentid=358

If you visit the LOTL home page, our column is listed as Dear Lezzies under the ONLINE COLUMNISTS Button.

Enjoy!

Tracey and Kathy
Co-authors of
"How To Be A Happy Lesbian: A Coming Out Guide"
"Coming Out Advice for Lesbians, Bisexual And Questioning Women"
"Relationship Advice for Lesbians and Bisexual Women"

NEW WEBSITE OPENING SOON
We are STILL in the process of setting up our new website design. Seems things are always more complicated to do than what we think they will be, and we are working hard to make sure everything works and is easy to find. We will send you information as soon as our new website is online.

WHAT OUR LOYAL SUPPORTERS ARE SAYING ABOUT US
Many people have Emailed us about our website, and we now have 12 pages of your comments! We thought we'd include a couple of great ones that we just received last week:

Message: "Your Ecards are WONDERFUL! I couldn't believe it when my lover sent me your cards. I guarantee I will be back every day sending her your HOT CARDS--Talk about a TURN ON! Please continue your Sensual Ecards. GOD has blessed me with the most beautiful woman I have ever met we are best friends, lovers and soul-mates my love grows everyday for her. Thank you for these cards; she deserves all the love I have for her."

Message: "I was just searching around and found your website. This is so cool! Please put me on your mailing list. I was just introduced to a wonderful woman that will take my heart away, and knows how to love someone. I have been looking for this person my whole life, you could say, and I have finally found her. You have done a beautiful job with this website, and I wish you all the best and all the growing that will come with this. Thanks so much!"

If have a comment you would like to share, or information about your own website and what you are doing, just use our Contact Form to send us a paragraph about your website, and we will list your comments and your link in our new section. See more comments from our Loyal Supporters.

As always, sending huge THANKS to everyone who has spread the word about our website and our Support and Networking Groups. We couldn't do it without you!!!!

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY
TO EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU!

Beautiful Ecards And Flowers For The One You Love:
	SECRETS OF THE DIVINE FEMININE ECARDS BY TERRY HINKLEY Each work of Terry's Vibrational Art continually resonates with inspirational Energy. Every piece is created with the intention of activating the higher vibration of creative feminine Energy in everyone. Please visit Terry's Website for information about original creations, and the Online Shop for great items; To see the Vibration Ecards, click here: Terry's Ecard Page
	ROMANTIC MOVIES Want to have a romantic Valentine's evening at home this year? We have reviews of over 100 lesbian films that go back to 1928! From sweet coming out stories to full-blown lesbian love stories, which may even spark some romance in your own relationship, remember to check out our online reviews for free before you rent or buy. Visit our Film Reviews Page for the best in lesbian movies.
	SHOW HER HOW MUCH YOU REALLY LOVE HER, SEND BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS AND GIFT BASKETS FOR VALENTINE'S DAY We researched the best online flower distributor to find one who will provide quality products for our our community. You can set up your own online account and send flowers for all occasions. Our Valentine's Day Gift Baskets, like the sweet Teddy to the left, and gorgeous flower bouquets are available online now while supplies last: 8730 - Loves First Blush 8734 - Simple Expression 8733 - Uniquely Yours 8729 - Romantic Valentine 8731 - Hugs & Kisses 8732 - Sweet Valentine 1406 - Happy Valentine's Day 3020 - 15 Mixed Tulips Our Grower Fresh Valentine's Bouquets will be available until February 19, 2010. Visit the Amazing Dreams Flower Shop and send your sweetheart flowers today!
	NEW LESBIAN HOROSCOPES BY FLASH SILVERMOON When even your most materialist friends call you up and say,"What is going on in those stars?" with panic in their voices, you know that there is an energetic shift that is reaching down to the inner most souls of the masses. I am not saying that one should be in such a state of dread, but it all reflects how well we deal with change. I know, our president made the word CHANGE not only pleasurable, but a battle cry to which we would all face the future. Be that as it may, most of us do not deal very well with change... To see your horoscope, visit Flash's Lesbian Astrology Page, or her Website to find out more about her Tarot Cards, Books, and Music CDs.
We have over 100 Free Valentine Ecard Designs For the women you love!
	VALENTINE ECARDS BY TRACEY Everywhere you look, it is always female and male couples portrayed for Valentine's Day. This year I thought it would be great to have Ecards made especially for us. Along with the standard hearts and cupid themes, I also designed some Ecards that show women happily together and enjoying the holiday. I hope you like sending these Ecards as much as I loved designing them. Visit Tracey's Ecard Page to send beautiful free Ecards of her work.
	VALENTINE ECARDS BY GAYNOR What better gift for your loved one, than a work of art which stems from the soul of an artist, for peace and LOVE are surely the ultimate goals. Gaynor's soulful art offers lively expression, combined with a reflecting echo of quaint similarity to that of Georgia O'Keefe's florals. Some of Gaynor's designs are available on T-shirts, mugs, tile coasters, journals, greeting cards and tote bags at her Cafe Press Online Store. Visit Gaynor's Ecard Page to send beautiful free Ecards of her work.
	VALENTINE ECARDS BY CLAIRE Offering inexpensive gift items that will inspire and make you laugh throughout the year. Claire has funny, uplifting, designs that are available as magnets, mugs, T-shirts, bookmarks, prints, and even a coloring book. Her designs are meaningful and heartfelt. We like her work so much that we've sent her magnet designs to our friends all over the United States, and we have five on the refrigerator in our kitchen! Also one of a kind reverse-glass window paintings, and other original artwork available. Visit Claire's website to see all of her beautiful artwork, or her Ecard Page to send beautiful free Ecards..
	VALENTINE ECARDS BY STRANGE CHILD PRODUCTIONS Introducing "Out There" the new Gay & Lesbian comic strip and Ecards you don't have to hide in a brown paper bag! Exclusive gifts, T-shirts, cards and much more created especially for our community. Personalized originals also available at very affordable prices. Get a little "Out There" with Strange Child productions. Visit the Out There Ecard Page to send fun Valentine Ecards.
	VALENTINE ECARDS BY DEBI Debi has never drawn on paper or painted on canvas. She learned how to draw with a mouse on her computer just a few years ago, and she is amazed by what you can do with this technology. “I have an intense passion for women. I can’t think of a more magnificent piece of art than one of two women showing their love for each other.” Visit Debi's Ecard Page to send beautiful Valentine Ecards.
	SENSUAL TOYS MAKE THE BEST GIFT FOR YOUR VALENTINE! Make her Valentine's Day one to remember with products selected especially for women! We have over 5,000 of the best sensual toys, hand-picked by and for lesbians and bisexual women. Our store has secure online shopping, fast delivery, discreet packaging, and no embarrassing visits to your local male-owned store. From multifunctional vibrators, to pillows with secret compartments for your toys, we have the best selection for women on the web at really great prices! Visit The Lesbian Sex Tips Toy Store for the best in sensual products.