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Body
talk and basic lesbian anatomy
What’s
the use of learning this?
Knowledge is power. If you apply yourself to learning everything
you can about a woman’s body, then you will have confidence
in yourself and your abilities to bring your partner pleasure.
If you know what a woman’s sometimes subtle responses
mean, then you can communicate on a deeper level and have
a more satisfying relationship.
People ARE different.
The
wonderful thing about being human is that we are all basically
the same in structure, yet we are all incredibly different.
What makes one person swoon in passion can make another
totally disgusted. This is why both verbal and nonverbal
communication is so important. In this chapter we will concentrate
on basic anatomy and nonverbal, or bodily, communication.
Verbal communication will be covered in Chapter 4.
What
is bodily communication?
When you get cold, your skin may raise with goose bumps
and you can start to shiver. This is your body communicating,
“Hey! It’s freezing out here. Either get me a
big coat, or let’s go in by the fireplace.” Your
body is talking to you constantly, although many of these
messages go unnoticed because they are such common occurrences.
For most of us, sex does not happen twenty-four hours a
day, which means that during arousal, our body’s responses
can be easily charted.
So
what can a body say?
Pay attention to your own responses when you are beginning
to get sexually aroused. What do you feel? Is it a heat
wave that starts at your feet and burns through your center?
Do you get flushed in the face, or red around your chest
and neck? Does your heart start pounding and your respiration
increase, or does your clitoris swell up and start to itch?
Do your hands perspire or do chills break out over your
back? Is your mind full of wonderfully intense images of
what you would like to do with her?
These are just a few of the messages your body might whisper—or
flat-out yell—when you are in the mood. The key is
to be aware of your own messages, and then open yourself
up to seeing your partner’s.
HOW
TO BE A HAPPY LESBIAN, A COMING OUT GUIDE
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